It’s no secret that many couples have mixed signals on exactly what their kinship partner wants in the bedroom.

Dating Women Sex Mistakes

The sex mistakes dating women most often make:

1. Women don’t understand why men don’t like to cuddle.

After sex, men return to the pre-aroused state, women return to a semi-aroused state.  For guys it’s a total system shutdown. Guys just want to crash, whereas dating women want to connect, cuddle, converse, and even have more sex. Dating women shouldn’t assume that a guy is insensitive if he’s more inclined to snore than snuggle. He’s probably just shattered. Think of it as a compliment to the sex you just had.

Sex Mistakes Women Make on Dating

2. Dating women don’t understand the extent to which performance anxieties, self-esteem issues and body-image issues all affect male sex drive.

Guys have many of the same issues as kinship dating women when it comes to sex: feeling out of shape, unattractive, not wanting to be seen naked during sex. Also, when guys are stressed out about work/financial issues, it often leads to a shutdown of desire. In both women and men, low self-esteem equals low desire.

3. Dating women think that men are always ready and willing to have sex any time, any place.

No way. As relationships progress over time, women can’t assume that guys are Pavlovian dogs that want to have sex every time you ring the bell. The mental turn-on becomes more crucial than the physical turn-on, and sexual desire begins in the brain, not the groin.

4. Dating women don’t understand how men can differentiate so easily between love and sex.

One of the reasons is that during sex, women produce lots of oxytocin, a hormone that stimulates a strong emotional connection. As a result, dating women are more emotionally integrated when it comes to sex. That’s why casual sex and hookups often backfire for lots of dating women. Guys produce little to no oxytocin, and can easily have sex without any sense of emotional connection. It is sex with no emotional strings attached.

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This entry was posted on Friday, December 14th, 2012 at 1:21 pm and is filed under dating women.

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